Jack Berg was 21 years old and fresh out of the Air National Guard when he met a woman he fancied at an Arthur Murray Dance Center in Milwaukee. She invited him to church.
Berg grew up in a troubled home with no formal religion. But of course he went. He liked this girl.
The pastor greeted Berg warmly by name after the service, and asked him to come back, maybe grab lunch sometime.
The romance with the girl fizzled, but in that one exchange with the pastor, Berg found his footing.
He came to the Twin Cities for college and seminary before making his way to Luck, Wis., where he spent 28 years as pastor of two Lutheran churches.
"Once he set out on that new course, he never turned back," said Berg's son-in-law, Paul Pettersen, a Lutheran pastor in Edina. "He had a strong conviction to be the pastor he wanted to be — and the dad and husband he wanted to be."
Berg, who moved to Hopkins about five years ago with his wife, died Nov. 25 from complications of dementia. He was 89.
Born June 2, 1930, in Milwaukee, he and twin sister June were the youngest of nine children in a family with two sets of twins. Their father was an alcoholic who could be volatile and abusive, Berg told his family. Berg was 9 years old and hiding in a barn with his siblings when he last saw his dad. There was a sense of relief when Berg's brother-in-law confronted the older man and sent him away for good.