A fellow who looked as if the adjective "seasoned" may have been invented for him approached me Tuesday, at the close of an AARP panel discussion about caregiving. That's today's catch-all word for looking after a frail or disabled relative or friend, often without pay and too often with difficulties that could be eased by enlightened public policies.
He didn't look happy.
I did a quick mental scan of the just-concluded program. What had I said to displease him? Perhaps it was my contention that Americans don't sufficiently value caregiving for either the young or the old because it was and often still is "women's work," and the work of women was and often still is undervalued.
I prepared myself to defend that notion. I need not have.
"You left out one important thing," he said. "We're never going to do more to help caregivers, or make the other changes you talked about, until we start electing more women."
Little did he know that that night, I would take part in a discussion at the Humphrey School of Public Affairs featuring journalist and author Marianne Schnall, in town to talk about her book, "What Will It Take to Make a Woman President? Conversations about Women, Leadership and Power." (Seal Press, 2013.)
I didn't get that good fellow's name. But I'm here to thank him for giving me a story I could relate a few hours later in response to the question posed in Schnall's title.
What it will take to elect a woman president, or governor, or to other government offices in numbers comparable to the female share of the population? For one thing, I allowed, it will take more voters — men and women — like this AARP volunteer. More voters will need to think that something good for themselves and their country can come from more gender integration of government.