I had been kicking around the idea of baking my own wedding cake someday because I love to bake cakes and wanted to give my friends and family that personal touch.
Then the perfect opportunity arose about a year ago when two friends I'd known since high school decided to tie the knot. They announced that they wanted a very "do-it-yourself" feel to their wedding, including some of the cooking.
"Did that include dessert?" I asked. The task was mine.
The next 12 months were a journey in practice cakes, cupcakes and icing, culminating in a three-day process to bake, decorate, transport and serve the wedding cakes and cupcakes.
Midway through the process, I got engaged and realized I had stumbled onto the perfect solution: I would get to bake a wedding cake, but it wouldn't be my own.
Early on I realized that the biggest issue we faced was building a cake. Traditional layered wedding cakes have all kinds of support built in to keep the massive layers from tumbling, crumbling and crushing themselves. That seemed to be outside my area of expertise.
So we devised a plan that we called a "deconstructed layer cake," which basically involved three (two-layer) cakes in different diameters: 6 inches, 8 inches and 10 inches. In other words, a traditional cake with all the tiers flat on the table.
Months ahead, I began to practice baking cakes. We -- my friends and I -- chose a chocolate cake recipe that was incredibly moist, which meant it wouldn't dry out if it were baked a couple days in advance or if it were frozen and defrosted.