Tom Pressly wasn't sure what he would do if and when his son, Ryan, took the mound for the Twins this weekend. At home just north of Dallas, watching on TV, he could comfortably enjoy the early innings, then jump out of his chair when his son was called out of the bullpen.
"I can't watch sometimes," the 60-year-old Pressly said. "I watch the game, then go in the other room. But I'm getting better about it."
Just in time, too. Pressly and his wife Jan are at Target Field this weekend, just as they traveled to Lowell, Mass., Greenville, N.C., and Salem, Mass., when Ryan pitched there.
So what does it mean to see him in a major league stadium, pitching to major league hitters? Pressly welled up with emotion, his silence answer enough.
The couple's son was equally proud. "They've seen me play T-ball, high school, and now all the way up to the majors," said Ryan Pressly, whose selection by the Twins in the Rule 5 draft last December gave him this chance to keep a roster spot. "It's great having them here."
An only child, Pressly has always had the unconditional support of his family. His 93-year-old grandmother, who also watches every game, paid for his apartment at spring training last year, Pressly said.
But there's a poignancy about it now. Tom Pressly was diagnosed with kidney cancer more than a year ago, and when Ryan heard the news, it triggered the worst season of his career. "I probably shouldn't have told him during the season. He kind of blew up," Tom Pressly said. "But he came out of it OK. I told him, 'You've got to do your job. You've got to go on, no matter what.' "
He delivers similar advice every day via text message, at least once a day, so often that Ryan rolls his eyes at the question. "What were you thinking?" is a frequent one, Tom Pressly says with a laugh. "Or mostly, 'Throw strikes!' "