Third-grade teacher Val Pap admits she would have skipped a meeting about heroin and prescription drug abuse two years ago.
Why would an educated, nurturing Lino Lakes mother with two ambitious adult sons go to a forum about "filthy, dark alley" heroin addiction?
"I am not sure I would have attended a meeting like this. There would have been no need," Pap told a crowd of more than 200 at the first of three Anoka County forums to discuss heroin, opiates and prescription painkiller abuse. "My suburban middle-class family was immune to drugs like this. … We dedicated our lives to raising our sons in a healthy, happy, stable home."
On Nov. 9, 2012, Pap's 21-year-old son, Tanner, died of a heroin overdose in his Minneapolis apartment. The Centennial High graduate had been studying psychology at the University of Minnesota and aspired to be a drug counselor and psychologist.
Neither his family nor roommates saw any evidence of drug use. His mother said she often wonders whether her intense youngest son tried it to relieve stress and died with one of his first experimentations with the street drug.
"The heroin today does not discriminate. Heroin will welcome anyone into its grasp," Pap said.
"Heroin has taken so much away from us. … He had so much to offer this world. He would have made a difference," she said, her voicing catching.
Pap was one of a number of speakers at the forum, including law enforcement, prosecutors, treatment professionals and former addicts.