Standing in line at the neighborhood movie house brings anticipation, yes, but also ambivalence. I love the movies, but I'm not sure I love the senior discount.
Not that I don't enjoy paying less. I do. But why do I deserve a discount while others in line, most of whom appear to be struggling students and young adults, are forced to subsidize me and my gray-haired friends just because we've reached a certain age?
It's a question that underlies much of generational politics these days, most notably the debate over how to curb the soaring cost of social insurance benefits as the postwar mega-generation begins to pass through old age. The seniors' lobby and the Democratic left are (in AARP's words) "deeply dismayed" that President Obama wants to slow the growth of Social Security benefits — slightly — and charge wealthier seniors a bit more for Medicare.
My question is: Why not? It's our deficit, too. And most of us can afford to chip in. A recent study by the Pew Research Center found that from 1984 to 2009, the median net worth for households headed by people 65 and older rose by 42 percent, while the net worth for households headed by people under 35 dropped by an amazing 68 percent.
Our generation, on the cusp of retirement, is doing much better than past generations of retirees and far better than younger workers who would love to have our "fixed incomes." Indeed, most younger workers will probably never have the stable jobs with benefits, the homeownership rates or the job-related pensions that so many of us enjoyed during our working lives and still enjoy.
Not even the recession hurt our generation that badly. While net worth declined across the board after 2008, households headed by 65- to 74-year-olds suffered the least financial damage, the Federal Reserve reported.
One reason we seniors are doing so well, of course, is the smashing success of our so-called entitlements. They provide a base of stability and confidence at a critical juncture in life. Until Social Security came along in the 1930s and Medicare in the 1960s, older Americans were among society's most impoverished groups. Now, with the tables turned, it's ironic (or maybe it's just the American way) that people with advantages should be lavished with more advantages — in this case, senior discounts for movies, restaurant meals, rental cars, airline tickets, hotel rooms, train and bus tickets, haircuts, clothing, Broadway shows, groceries, cruises, you name it.
I can think of only three possible reasons for this. One is pity. Maybe society feels sorry for us and wants us to enjoy life to the fullest while we still can. Another is honor. Maybe society wants to honor us in the same way it honors war veterans, or in the same way the Motion Picture Academy hands out lifetime achievement awards to mediocre actors.