I stood in front of my closet last month, grumbling about the lack of options, when I recalled an old magazine article that said having nothing to wear with a closet full of clothes could be a sign of deeper emotional distress.
I laughed at the irony as I stared at old bridesmaid dresses hanging in the corner. I panned rows of color-categorized tops, shelves overflowing with denim and a floor covered in shoes.
Then I had an Einstein moment. The theoretical physicist must have had visions of the average woman's shopping habits when he said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
This nothing-to-wear problem has plagued me since I started buying my own clothes at 16, but especially in my 30s as I balance a career with raising children.
I spent my 20s building an inventory of trendy, cheap (in construction and cost) fashion. In recent years, I wised up and invested in some higher quality basics, but that still didn't help answer the age-old question: What to wear?
I had been wearing my clothes the same way for so long that they no longer seemed new and exciting, and I lacked the time and motivation to create outfits I felt good in.
How does a thirty-something woman dress — and feel — her age? I'm not young, exactly, but not old, either.
Like me, most women spend an average of 16 minutes every day deciding what to wear and wear only 20 percent of their wardrobe 80 percent of the time.