As I dined on crab soup during a recent visit out East, my D.C.-based aunt asked me how people stay motivated to stick with an exercise program. She and her best friend, Sue, are both retired and fall on and off the exercise wagon.
Like a moth digs light, people love to laugh. So socialize -- take a group class that you really enjoy, I suggested to Aunt Sandra and Sue.
"But we are retired. We don't want a schedule," they said. "And we are on a limited income."
"Well, what do you love to do?" I asked them.
Suddenly they were animated. Sue regularly hooks up with friends, but it's always over a meal. (Ah, but fork-to-face aerobics just don't work off the calories the way we wish they did.) Aunt Sandra said she and my Aunt Harriet, and sometimes Sue, will have sleepovers, pop in an exercise tape and go to town working up a sweat. And then, there's dancing. "People in this area just love to line dance," Aunt Sandra said.
Country line dancing?
"No. Electric Slide line dancing," she said. "People love it. Especially since you don't need a partner. Widowed? Divorced? Doesn't matter. You just go on out there and have fun." You listen to the dance leader, who calls out your next move. You just follow. Simple.
At my cousin's wedding the night before, I spied Aunt Sandra and the rest of my extended family boogieing like there was no tomorrow, especially when the Electric Slide came on. Truth be told, I did a little stomping and sliding myself. It was great fun, and everybody was grooving -- even my uncle, who occasionally uses a wheelchair. He and my Aunt Mary were shaking their hips on that dance floor along with the rest of us. According to www.BestHealth.com, each of us burned 170 to 225 calories in just 30 minutes.