Q: How do you tell a stranger in a store who is not respecting the social distancing guidelines to back up?
A: How you do it makes a huge difference in how well it's received. When social distancing boundaries are violated, you should always start from a place of kindness and only escalate if necessary. And remember that we can't control others' actions; we only can control what we say and do.
Start by saying in a friendly and upbeat tone, "Would you mind creating a little bit more space between us, please? Thank you. I really appreciate it." If you have room to move, say, "Sorry, I'm trying to keep 6 feet away," while stepping back.
If the other person continues to disrespect social distancing guidelines, then you can seek the help of someone who is in charge. That will ensure you aren't dealing with the problem alone.
With that being said, you should never do this as a way to shame or punish someone else, only to protect everyone's health and safety.
BONNIE TSAI, etiquette expert and founder of Beyond Etiquette
A: COVID-19 cases are surging. This is due to several factors, the most glaring of which is that people aren't following Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommendations to stay home and maintain a safe distance from others when out in public.
Being a woman has provided plenty of lessons over the years on the invasion of personal space. Here are a few tips on re-establishing your boundaries, adjusted for the pandemic.
