After a yearlong battle with cancer, Teri Swanson was planning a special trip with her sons to celebrate being cancer-free.
Instead, the single mother of three is planning her 16-year-old son's funeral. He was shot in the head with an arrow by his best friend just a month after his mother received the positive prognosis.
"I was thinking, 'All right, we're home free,'" she said Thursday. "It's sad to know I'm not going to be able to do with Spencer what we had planned."
Spencer died Monday, and now his mother is trying to find comfort in the widespread support of his Chaska classmates, bowling teammates and other community members touched by the creative, outgoing teen with a contagious smile.
"He believed he was intended for something bigger," she said. "I always thought he was, too -- I just didn't think it would be something like this."
His funeral is set for Monday at the Waterbrooke Fellowship Church in Victoria, with a service following visitation from 10 a.m. to noon.
His mother said she wants him to be remembered for far more than just the tragedy that ended his life. Instead, she said, he was a natural athlete, a role model to his 8-year-old brother and an aspiring filmmaker as a junior at Integrated Arts Academy in Eastern Carver County Schools. He was also in community sports and active at his church, especially in the years she homeschooled him.
Bob Topinka coached Spencer on Chaska and Chanhassen high schools' bowling team the past two years.