"I have to go put out a fire," Christopher Foote would tell his wife, Diane, when he got up in the middle of the night. Meaning a conflict of some sort had flared among the nearly 24,000 members of the Lake Minnetonka Fan Club, a Facebook page Foote founded and ran.
Foote described the page in a 2020 post as a place for "good-natured conversation, shared wisdom, intelligent discourse." Members asked for restaurant recommendations and posted photos of the lake at sunset. When hostilities broke out — over politics, docks or, in one case, walleye sandwiches — Foote would delete insults and boot out offenders, explaining his actions to the group with what member Molly Lang of Tonka Bay described as "dignity, grace, humor, diplomacy, and intelligence."
"Folks, this group is for celebrating everything we love about the Lake Minnetonka area," he posted in April 2020. "Let's soften the tone a little, share our thoughts, learn from each other, engage in some much needed humor, and we'll all get through this together."
Foote died in his sleep July 11 at his home in Deephaven. He was 62, healthy and fit, Diane said. Doctors blamed a pulmonary embolism, but she said, "I think he worked himself to death."
Foote was a commercial artist and cartoonist, a website designer and a marketing director for a Catholic nonprofit. The Facebook group was an offshoot of a website he ran.
Through it all, he was consistently cheerful and kind, Diane said. "I was married to the man for 20-some years and I've never seen him behave badly or questionably, ever."
He was born in Washington, D.C., and his family moved to Minnetonka in 1970. He studied art at the University of Minnesota and the Atelier Studio Program of Fine Art in Minneapolis.
His passions ranged from sewing to bodybuilding to staging elaborate pranks. He adopted Diane's four children and loved playing with his grandchildren. He enjoyed most kinds of music. When Elvis Presley died, he cut short a surfing trip in Florida, "drove to Graceland and stood outside and cried," Diane said.