"You've got to be kidding me" was Brett Favre's first thought when hearing O-lineman Jonathan Martin had left the Dolphins after allegedly being the object of prolonged bullying by teammate Richie Incognito.
"Pro football bullying?" a puzzled Favre said to Matt Lauer in Monday's interview on NBC's "Today" show. It was an interview that focused mostly on the former Vikings QB's recent disclosure of the effect repeated concussions are now having on his life.
"My initial reaction was, You've got to be kidding me. What? Pro football bullying? We're playing the toughest sport, most violent, not to mention you're men, some older than others, so it's not like a little 12-year-old on the playground," Favre said. "I'm not defending or condoning, all I'm saying is my initial reaction was, 'A grown man who's 320 pounds is getting bullied?
Favre was interrupted by Lauer, who asked if the QB tough guy didn't think bullying was possible in the NFL.
"Well, I never thought I would see it. I'm not saying it's not possible, I'm not saying it didn't happen. I haven't paid a whole lot of attention, but my initial reaction was 'You have got to be kidding me.' It is part of the locker room. There [are] a lot of guys getting picked on. Some handle it well, some don't. I'm not saying it's right. And from a locker-room stance, from a team stance, I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is."
I'm saying it's a juvenile aspect of locker-room culture that NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell is most assuredly going to halt.
I am not surprised Brett doesn't get bullying. He was very much trapped in an adolescent haze when as a grown man he sent sexting messages to Jenn Sterger featuring his anatomy.
It was fascinating watching Favre's verbal dance moves with Lauer — about what's possible and what he doesn't condone in a locker room where guys get picked on and some handle it better than others. Kind of gives us a feel for why the NFL slapped him with a $50,000 fine for not cooperating with the investigation, which in other words means he wouldn't provide the visuals needed to confirm what was in the sext messages.