When Gene Holderness was introduced years ago to Paul Volcker, then chairman of the Federal Reserve, the Edina businessman reacted in a way that few would dare.
Holderness strangled himself with his own tie and playfully yelled, "You ruined my business!" It was true in the sense that the Fed's interest rate hikes had hurt Holderness' housing development company. But he meant it to disarm one of the country's most powerful men, and Volcker couldn't stop laughing.
"He always knew the right thing to do," recalled former U.S. Sen. David Durenberger, who introduced the two men. "Nobody else would have thought to behave that way in the Senate dining room to the chairman of the Fed. I'll bet Volcker never forgot that."
Holderness died July 30 at age 80, leaving a legacy as a man who had the instinct for the right choices and the right words. After founding Minnesota Homes, Holderness held management positions at three law firms — Robins, Kaplan, Miller & Ciresi; Dorsey & Whitney; and Leonard, Street & Deinard. He also ran campaigns for Durenberger, U.S. Rep. Erik Paulsen, former state Rep. Keith Downey and former state Sen. Roy Terwilliger.
Holderness' instinct served him well during Christmas 1962, when he went on a first date with Susie Fry and resolved to marry her. They were married for 54 years, had four children and raised a teenage Vietnamese refugee as a foster child. Holderness took his family on trips to hike amid bears, climb glaciers and ride snowmobiles, and got his wife and kids into inaugural balls to meet celebrities after President Ronald Reagan's re-election in 1984.
"As a parent now, I can't believe all of the things we did," said Brooks Wilkening, one of Holderness' daughters. "He believed in exploring and learning."
Holderness' charm and faith in others helped them to achieve, too. Wilkening said she always received notes of encouragement in college — a quote or a Bible verse. Susie Holderness said she wouldn't have pursued a master's degree in the 1960s without her husband's confidence.
"There was nothing out of reach with him," his wife said.