Not all kids are built alike. And not all lunchboxes have to be filled with the same things.
I used to roll my eyes at all those parent-magazine lunchbox tips. "All kids love dipping things! Send them to school with vegetables and a little container of ranch dressing!" Really? My kid hated any form of dip — especially ranch dressing.
"Tuck a fun note in with lunch!" He would have gouged his own eyes out if he'd had to open a note from his mother in front of his friends. "Cut sandwiches into cute animal shapes!" If I had turned his bologna into bunnies, he would have run away and joined the circus.
And you know what? I got it: Lunch is personal. It's the oasis in the day, a meal we get to tailor just for ourselves. The lunchbox is our own turf.
It isn't even just for kids. Adults probably carry lunch even more often than kids do. Given the time, cost and calories of the lunch options near most workplaces, packing your own is often your best choice.
With kids back to school, you have the next nine months or so to figure out the best way to game lunch for yourself and your kids. This time, I dug into cookbooks and websites in search of ideas for loading up those lunchboxes.
If you don't find anything that inspires you, go to the website Food 52 and check out Amanda's Kids' Lunches. Writer Amanda Hesser documents what she packs for her twins' lunches every day. Yes, Hesser's kids apparently are willing to eat asparagus sandwiches, cold haricot verts, pickled onions and Milanese rice salads with tuna for lunch. In front of their friends.
Told you — not all kids are built alike. I bet Hesser's kids are really happy. I hear the circus can be a really good career.