If you've ever seen former Duke star Jahlil Okafor grasp 13 tennis balls at once or palm a regulation-sized basketball as if it were a grapefruit — or even if you haven't — you know all about his massive hands.
You might not know, though, about what you can't see, what he says has lifted him to national acclaim by the time he was 13 and an early stroll to the stage at Thursday night's NBA draft as well.
Okafor was 9 years old the day his mother died before him and three siblings, a life-altering moment he at first thought was playful when she struggled to breathe. A decade later, a memory he won't forget has shaped him into one of this draft's top prospects as much as those massive hands and his huge body have.
"She's my wings," he said.
The son of parents who each played college basketball, Okafor dunked on a low-hanging, clothes-hanger rim when he was in diapers and drew a crowd at Foot Locker because of his big hands and unusually big body when he still just a baby.
Now pushing 7 feet and enormous everywhere, Okafor carries with him a dedication — passed down this past decade through his father from their love of the game, and shared grief as well as a sense of purpose borne from the death of his mother, Dacresha Benton. She died at age 29 due to a collapsed lung, on a March day 10 years ago that Okafor says still seems to him just like yesterday.
"He's a kid who believes he is destined for greatness," Duke associate head coach Jeff Capel said, "and he's not afraid of it."
All about winning
The basketball court became a sanctuary after Okafor moved from his mother's Arkansas home to live with his father, Chucky, in Chicago upon her death. Offered a scholarship by DePaul when he was an eighth-grader, he arrives Thursday with the most polished footwork and low-post fundamentals seen in a 19-year-old since, well, maybe Tim Duncan entered the NBA nearly 20 years ago.