Graduation speeches can be hard on the ears. Cornball platitudes, after all, are but a few keystrokes away. And unless you're finishing at Harvard, the Berklee College of Music or Howard University, you won't be listening to Michael Bloomberg, Jimmy Page or Sean "Puff Daddy'' Combs.
Instead you'll squirm through the grave intonations of a second- or even third-tier stiff whose blather about your future will be peppered with just enough advice about rising early and working hard to prompt the sage nods of moms and dads, and to ensure the speaker's honorarium cashes on Monday.
Graduates, think about this:
First, many of the most successful people in this country move in counterpoint to the general population. As the late Bill Norris, a founder of Control Data Corp. and an ardent fisherman, said, "When people travel in one direction, I'm most comfortable going the opposite way.'' Remind yourself of this early and often. It'll give you confidence to act on your dumb ideas, which in any event might not be so dumb.
Second, many of the happiest people in this country understand the value of living simply, or as simply as our culture allows, and understand also the importance of doing as many things as possible — work included — in an old way, in natural settings.
This notion of outdoors labor as therapy isn't novel: Weeding a garden has long been a balm for minds and tomatoes alike. Ditto walking a dog, swimming a mile or exploring a woods, apropos of nothing. If you're inclined to hunt or fish, even better; that way, you'll know where your food comes from. The point is, dirty hands do make for happy people, a fact evermore lost in a country whose urban work force increasingly shuffles in lockstep toward cube farms, their spaces individualized only by cheap nameplates.
Today's third point presumes a certain amount of buy-in by today's graduates in the value of questioning convention.
This type of thinking was commonplace in 1969, when I finished high school. The Cuban missile crisis, JFK's assassination, Bobby Kennedy's assassination, Martin Luther King's assassination, the Detroit riots, the '68 Democratic convention/slugfest, the killings at Kent State in 1970, the endless Vietnam War and, ultimately, Richard Nixon's lies laid the groundwork for multiple generations who awoke in the morning doubting the sincerity of just about everything.