Last month, I helped my parents move from their home of 37 years. They left for a wise and simple reason: It had become too much for them to maintain. Yet my last few visits to the emptying house were hard; we were parting with four decades of reference points for memories major and mundane. Still, the day my folks resettled, new memories were waiting to be born.
Back at my own house, there's a back-yard pond. Alas, it no longer holds water. Try as I might, I can't patch the leak; I am inept, and water finds a way. But each spring, when the level is not too high and not yet too low, a pair of ducks flaps in to feed. This year they graced us with their presence every day for a month.
Established things change. Things that ought to work don't -- in life and in the community. New experiences, different and not necessarily bad, await.
I'm aware that I risk irrelevance in trotting out quaint anecdotes to a world full of real loss and upheaval and oppression. I also know that the silver-lining argument is as old as the sky.
We shouldn't stand by passively when good things threaten to go away. And if needed things are broken ... by all means, complain. These are requisite parts of progress.
But the good news is that the trite is true: The sun will come out tomorrow. And if not then, the day after that.
That's what I keep telling myself.
DAVID BANKS, Assistant Commentary Editor