Lisa Harter refused to give up hope that her missing son would be found after his grandparents took the 5-year-old and fled their small Indiana town.
Nineteen years later, the search has ended in the central Minnesota town of Long Prairie, where detectives found Harter's son living, now a 24-year-old man with a wife and family that Harter hopes to eventually meet.
"It's such a relief that he's been found and that he's alive and that he's healthy," she said Thursday from her home in LaGrange, Ind. "I found this out two days ago, and I'm so excited. I'm pretty happy. I know he's married and he has a child on the way. I've seen pictures of him. He looks like a man. I last saw him when he was a boy. He looks so different."
She will wait, hoping that her son will call her now that authorities have told him she has been searching for him since 1994.
"I'm a little nervous because I haven't seen him for a long time," she said. "I want to tell him I want to see [him]. I want to talk to [him.] But I might cry."
Harter's son, whose birth name was Richard Wayne Landers Jr., was caught in a custody battle between his mother and his paternal grandparents.
Harter and her son's father were in the midst of a divorce at the time, said Indiana attorney Richard Muntz, who has worked with the mother in her 19-year search. The couple had a troubled relationship and Harter ended up in a homeless shelter, Muntz said. Child welfare services stepped in because Harter has some developmental disabilities. "The father wasn't in the picture, and the grandparents got temporary custody," Muntz said.
In her own home, remarried and working a job, Harter sought to regain custody.