Addiction is a disease, like cancer -- let's treat it as one

What if we saw addiction more like we see cancer? Both deadly diseases, they are worlds apart in how they are perceived.

It would sound heartless to tell a cancer patient to "get over it," yet alcoholics and addicts are judged harshly for their malady.

Cancer cells don't announce their presence until enough have amassed to be felt, detected by tests, or cause pain. Likewise, addiction often has someone in its steel grips before they realize it.

Addiction and cancer have common ground beyond their lethal potential. Research has made headway regarding causes and treatment of both, but unanswered questions remain and cures are elusive.

Personal habits can be contributing factors. Genetic predisposition seems prominent. Many forms of treatment can help put each in remission.

But they continue to exact a huge toll in our country on a daily basis. People don't ask for or deserve either. I didn't ask for either, but I am facing both.

I am an alcoholic in recovery since 1989 and a breast cancer survivor since 2008. Very grateful to be alive, I don't have to face either disease alone. I wish that for everyone.

It is disconcerting that a celebrity death puts the calamity of addiction in the news for a mere few days before it flits quietly away again. We need to keep addiction in the headlines. Not individual tragedies, but the collective devastation.

It's not every day a famed singer dies, but it is every day that lives are lost to alcohol and other drugs. Just your average alcoholic or addict. Gone. Leaving behind loved ones, lost dreams, and heartache.

Their stories are no less tragic than Winehouse's, but it is too easy to detach when the victim is someone we don't personally know, too easy to remove ourselves from the urgency.

Bring it closer to home. We all know people struggling with addiction. It may be someone in the office next door, the house down the street, or the bedroom across the hall. Some are alive, but not well.

Others make headlines in the local paper when they crash cars, drown, commit murder/suicide or have obituaries that simply say "died unexpectedly." Maybe if we stated openly that addiction killed them, more people would take notice and stigma would fall away.

Addiction is non-discriminating, touching all classes and races. Those afflicted need help from outside themselves. We wouldn't expect a cancer patient to treat themselves. Why do we think addicts can?

The bitter judgment is obvious. Weak-willed. Created their own troubles. Why don't they just quit? Instead, let's ask ourselves if there is someone in our own lives who needs support and if we are the ones who can offer it.

Both illnesses impact an entire family. Yet, families dealing with cancer get support and sympathy while families with addiction get discussed in hushed tones. Secrets are perpetuated by the rampant denial, guilt, and shame in these families.

The proverbial elephant in the living room needs to get kicked out, but it takes a concerted effort. If making a meal for a chemo patient and her family is helpful, so is not enabling an addict to continue putting themselves and others in danger.

Each studied for centuries, people accept cancer as a disease but debate addiction as one. Alcoholism has been recognized as a disease since 1956 by the American Medical Association.

Cancer makes the news regularly, helping advance awareness, prevention, treatment, research funding, and people's willingness to talk about it. We can strive for the same with addiction. We can even hope for lives saved and families restored.