No one knows exactly where he was coming from early Sunday -- perhaps a mosque or the food shelf where he volunteered -- but Moussa Maayif definitely had his life together when it ended so tragically in St. Paul.
A native of Mauritania in northwestern Africa, Maayif, 39, had recently been promoted at Boston Scientific, his ex-wife said Monday, and was studying for an MBA at the University of St. Thomas.
Still, he yearned for more, Shahidah Siraaj said, recalling their last conversation a few weeks ago, "something even more spiritual." He wanted to "give back," she said, and he was doing so by volunteering for a nonprofit group, Building Blocks.
"I think I told him that he was really coming into his own," Siraaj said.
But at 12:15 a.m. Sunday, at University Avenue and Vandalia Street, Maayif was killed -- the victim of a crash so violent that his vehicle went airborne into a utility pole, shearing it at its foundation outside the Dubliner Pub, 2162 University Av.
On Monday, as the driver of the other vehicle, Jacqueline M. Wagner, 20, was charged with criminal vehicular homicide, Siraaj said she wants his story known: "I'd like to put a face to who he is," she said.
Though they divorced in 2007 after three years of marriage, "we were still very much friends," she said.
On Sunday, Wagner, of New Brighton, known as Jacqui to her family, was among several hundred people watching street racing in an industrial area near University Avenue and Transfer Road, police said.