A critic remembers: A proposal over a cup of tea with Maggie Roche

A critic's love of "The Roches" album led to an unusual proposition in Maggie's New York apartment.

January 25, 2017 at 11:01PM
(The Minnesota Star Tribune)
Maggie, Suzzy and Terre Roche in 1979
Maggie, Suzzy and Terre Roche in 1979 (The Minnesota Star Tribune)

The first time I heard "The Roches" album I wanted to marry all three of the singing sisters. The record proved they have almost everything I've dreamed of: spirit, intelligence, humor, creativity, warmth, charm and personality.

I wrote that in 1979 when "The Roches," a brilliant and witty collection of harmony-loving originals produced by Robert Fripp, was released, and I went to New York City to meet the three sisters – and propose.

It was a sunny day in Manhattan, well, as sunny as it seems amid grey skyscrapers. The Roches had a couple of weeks off. Suzzy, the youngest sister, was vacationing in Europe. Maggie was talking about having a friend over to dinner that evening. And Terre was a bit hungerover but managed to find her way down the block to Maggie's second-floor Greenwich Village apartment.

Coffee and tea were served. The two Roche sisters settled into opposite ends of an old couch. Maggie caressed a pillow. Terre slurped her coffee. I sipped my tea, Red Zinger, the first time I'd ever experienced that seemingly exotic herbal flavor. Why not be adventurous? After all, I was about to try something bold.

I cleared my throat. Then I popped the big one.

"I fell in love with the album and thought about marrying all three of you."

Maggie looked up at me with her expressive, big brown eyes. She seemed contemplative, as she usually does. But Terre jumped right in, as she usually does.

"How would it work?" she asked.

"You see, I have a three-bedroom house…"

"But where would you sleep?" Terre interrupted.

"In the basement, of course, with your record," I wisecracked.

Maggie finally smiled. She suggested that we wait and consult Suzzy.

We never did connect with Suzzy.

Postscript: Maggie Roche died Saturday of breast cancer. She was 65.

about the writer

about the writer

Jon Bream

Critic / Reporter

Jon Bream has been a music critic at the Star Tribune since 1975, making him the longest tenured pop critic at a U.S. daily newspaper. He has attended more than 8,000 concerts and written four books (on Prince, Led Zeppelin, Neil Diamond and Bob Dylan). Thus far, he has ignored readers’ suggestions that he take a music-appreciation class.

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