As she witnessed her husband struggling with his grief Thursday night, Alisha Parise knew he needed a change of scenery. Less than 24 hours after his father's death, Wild winger Zach Parise sat in front of the TV at his family's home, watching his team lose 4-2 to Chicago.
"My wife told me, 'You have to go to the rink,' '' Zach said Friday, after rejoining the Wild for a practice at Xcel Energy Center. " 'You have to go and practice and get away and try and get back into the groove of things.' It was important for me to get back.''
Parise will return to the lineup for Saturday's home game against Nashville, and he plans to leave with the team Saturday night for a road trip to Chicago, Pittsburgh and Buffalo. The funeral for his dad, J.P. Parise, will be held next Friday. As condolences continued to pour in from across Minnesota, North America and the NHL, Parise found comfort Friday among teammates and coaches ready to lend whatever support he needed.
After Friday's practice, Parise joked that his dad "probably would have been mad'' that he missed the Wild's games against San Jose on Tuesday and Chicago on Thursday. J.P. Parise, 73, died Wednesday evening after fighting lung cancer for the past year.
Parise said the family has received "incredible, amazing'' support from fans, coaches and players, many of whom have shared stories about J.P.'s kindness and warmth. Hearing about the impact he had on so many people, from former NHL buddies to players in the hockey programs he directed at Shattuck-St. Mary's School in Faribault, has been uplifting.
"We share a lot of the same traits on the ice, but that's only a small part,'' Parise said. "He taught so much more than that.
"One thing he always said was, 'Just be a good guy.' That's what he wanted out of Jordan [Zach's brother] and I. The way he treated people at the rink — the people that work here, teammates, staff, everyone — is something that I'll always remember.''
Parise said the timing of the road trip is unfortunate, and it will be hard to be away from his family — particularly his mother, Donna — while their pain is still so fresh. Jordan will stay with her at the family home while Zach is away, which will help allow him to ease back into hockey.