I guess we'll never know. Because of my uncertainty about the answers to these questions, however, I'm glad that Freeman is taking the time he needs to choose a path from which the judge, jury and, most important, the police might actually learn something. Let's all hope he uses this time well. History has already repeated itself here more often than it should have.
I read with fascination the Aug. 29 commentary by Jennifer Nelson ("I have worked hard to overcome obstacles — but I had help"). As a Scandinavian, I would add that my own white privilege started when my great-great grandparents emigrated for free land in South Dakota due to the U.S. Homestead Act of 1862. While assimilation may have been challenging for the first generation, my relations were welcomed here in freedom and given the support of the government and its military against the First Peoples. One might say that U.S. genocide against the Dakota people was necessary for my ancestors to prosper here as farmers.
My grandparents owned a farm (contract for deed) and benefited from rural electrification, which changed my dad's farm-chore youth almost overnight, freeing him up to pursue brainy hobbies, which led to a very subsidized mechanical engineering degree at South Dakota State University, a land-grant college. Partly because of his talent, but also due to his white maleness, he was put on a management track at Allis Chalmers in West Allis, Wis., and with his salary, my stay-at-home mom didn't have to work outside of idyllic suburban homes they owned during most of my childhood. West Allis avoided the desegregation demanded by Brown vs. Board of Education, so while all of the brown-skinned kids were attending inner-city schools in Milwaukee, a notoriously segregated city, I went to school in all-white-ville and was the second generation to attend college. I really doubt that many of these doors to modest middle-class wealth would have been opened if my great-great grandparents had been people of color. The awareness of my white privilege helps me be more empathetic to black lives.
Six times Nelson asked "would that have been possible if [I, mother, father] had been black?" The answer is yes: Other people, including blacks, could persevere as she did. Her circumstances are not a product of her race but of her choices. Perhaps her apparent guilt is misplaced.