GOVERNOR'S RACE
All DFL candidates should vie in primary
To DFL gubernatorial candidates: Please stay in the race regardless of party endorsements. Let "we the people" select the candidates we want to represent us.
Yes, the endorsement will help you. And for many who are too busy to study your platform, an endorsement will be an easy way to decide how to vote.
But if elected, you will represent everyone, not only the party activists. So you should address all of us and let us select the candidates via real, not rubber-stamp, primaries.
HANNA HILL, PLYMOUTH
INTERNATIONAL ADOPTIONS
Don't let a selfless act become a selfish one
There appears to be incongruence between families of adopted children who have made their way into the public awareness lately and the seemingly coincidental legislative push to support the international adoption process ("A silver lining to a heartless act?" April 17).
While I am a supporter of adoption, I have concerns that needs are shifting from children to parents and from a selfless act to a selfish one.
Those working in the field of infant and child mental health know that there is great significance in understanding the first three years of any child's life. Trauma that occurs preverbally can be the most detrimental and difficult to repair. This kind of damage can impair a child's ability to form attachment bonds and trust and to interpret the world around them accurately. Add the fact that just as their brains are beginning to learn their native language and culture, they are removed and flown thousands of miles around the world to a family waiting with the highest of expectations.
When potential parents have the desire to save a child, or that their baby will conform to their values and beliefs, they can have unrealistic expectations that can turn to bitter disappointment. We cannot just love a child enough to make the damage of childhood trauma and the resulting pain go away.