Thank you to Gail Rosenblum for her column about postpartum depression and the incident involving a young Karen mother ("Empathy for those with postpartum depression," Nov. 29). Shwe Htoo was my student for a short time this year (until she went on maternity leave). I didn't have time to get to know her well, but I know she was very quiet and polite in my class.
The people who have posted hateful comments about her on social media have no understanding of what Htoo was dealing with. They should learn about mental illness in general, and specifically postpartum illnesses, before they judge her. They should also learn about the complex stresses and issues faced by refugees who come to this country.
In 2003, a wonderful family lost two loved ones to postpartum mental illness. Rather than pursue lawsuits against public servants who responded to the situation irresponsibly, the family chose to push legislation on postpartum mental illness. They were successful, but the issue hasn't been eradicated.
To continue reducing the frequency of this kind of incident, it is essential that we educate more people and reduce stigma associated with mental illnesses. By doing so, we will help mothers to get help when they need it, and we will save the lives of babies and mothers who are suffering.
Sheilah M. Seaberg, St. Paul.
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The key to controlling pain meds is relationship with your doctor
In the past 18 months, I had two similar surgeries on my feet (first one, and then the other). I had to switch surgeons between surgeries because the first left the health organization where I was treated ("Minnesota confronts painkiller epidemic," Nov. 29). The first surgeon readily offered narcotic pain medications. At each follow-up appointment I was asked if I needed more pain medication (not "how is your pain level?" or "let's discuss your pain"). The second surgeon had a timeline as to when his patients should be finished with narcotic pain medications. Again, there was no discussion about pain level.
There was an assumption that my pain is not great enough to warrant narcotic pain medication and that I should be able to manage with over-the-counter remedies. I am not someone who stays on narcotic pain medication longer than needed after surgery, but I don't have a specific timeline as to when I will no longer need it.
I feel doctors need to do better in assessing pain and have real discussions with their patients about their specific situation and treat them accordingly. Are there people who will lie about their pain just to get more pain medication? Yes! Certainly, the state's approach will help with the doctor shopping by those who are addicted. But I think controlling the overprescribing of pain medications starts with the doctor/patient relationship.