It took playwright Marcus Gardley three tries before he was finally able to write "The Gospel of Lovingkindness," his heralded 2014 one-act that opens Friday at Pillsbury House Theatre in Minneapolis. On the first two tries, the subject matter proved too sensitively close to home.
"Lovingkindness," which takes its title from faith traditions, orbits the effects of gun violence on the families of perpetrator and victim. The drama, suffused with lightness despite its sobering theme, asks us to see the sympathetic humanity of both families, even as the effects of violence bind them.
Gardley first approached the subject after a family tragedy. In the spring of 2008, his cousin, Deandre Sellers, then 29, was shot multiple times in Oakland, Calif.
The two grew up next to each other in the Bay Area, with both coming from solid families — Gardley's parents are a minister and a nurse; Sellers also had familial support. But Gardley became a celebrated playwright, and Sellers, who left behind two young children, became a drug dealer. He died outside a supplier's house.
At the funeral, fellow dealers and people in that life showed up to pay their respects, and to pour offertory libations on the sidewalk in his name. Gardley and his family scoffed at the gesture. The playwright chose a different life path, and a different way to deal with his grief.
"I started to write about it, because writing is therapeutic," Gardley said by phone from a retreat in Marin, Calif. "But it was too painful. Deandre was like my brother. And it's hard for me to write about myself."
As he struggled with his craft and the loss, another local event reopened his wounds. In January 2009, a young father named Oscar Grant III was killed by a transit police officer at a train station in Oakland. That shooting, captured on cellphone videos and memorialized in the award-winning film "Fruitvale Station," left Gardley even more pained.
"That's my station, the stop for my parents' house," he said. "Oscar lived on my street. I tried to write about it again, but kept coming upon these emotional blocks. Oftentimes, great playwriting requires distance. I knew I had to find the space to deal with all these emotions."