When Phebe Givens was growing up in north Minneapolis, her mother worked as a washroom attendant at the Minneapolis Athletic Club to support the family.
So it was a proud moment when, years later, Givens invited her mother to join her there for Mother's Day brunch.
By now, Phebe Givens was one of Minnesota's wealthiest women and a member of the exclusive club — and her mother was her guest. "So she got to sit and be served," recalled Roxanne Givens, Phebe's daughter. "It was just remarkable." And, she added, "really pretty symbolic."
Phebe Givens, a philanthropist and co-founder of the Givens Foundation for African-American Literature, died April 23 at age 93.
"She shattered a lot of barriers," said her daughter, Roxanne. "Everybody thought of her as this beautiful woman and this gracious woman — and she was. But she was a dedicated community leader."
Givens was the widow of Archie Givens Sr., a real estate developer who was considered the first black millionaire in Minneapolis. Together, they built a dynasty that included the first integrated nursing homes in Minnesota in the 1950s and 1960s.
While her husband was viewed as the entrepreneur, "my mother was always right by his side, encouraging him and often working together," said their son, Archie Givens, who now heads the family foundation.
Born in 1922, Phebe Givens grew up in the same North Side neighborhood as her husband. She went to a small black college in Missouri while he remained in Minneapolis, trying to scrape together a living.