As she does all day, every day, Amber lies on her mattress in front of the television watching "Sesame Street." Once in a while the voices distract her from her beloved Elmo. She rolls her eyes to look at the ring of faces above.
Two nurses, a social worker and a doctor have come to visit.
Her parents, Tom and Lisa Kimlinger of Fridley, are among the fortunate few parents of very sick children who have been getting expert help navigating the labyrinth of medical care available to their daughter. They've learned, often the hard way, that less can be better.
So the days of constant visits to doctors in hospitals for ever-more-complex medical procedures are over, said Lisa Kimlinger, 46. "It's not worth the quality of life. I want her to be happy in the days she has left."
Amber, 11, was born with an exceptionally rare genetic bone disease. She is 30 inches long and has never walked. Now, as she labors to breathe on the floor at their feet, they don't talk about what will help her live longer. They talk only about the kind of medicine that, like Elmo, will make her feel better today.
This is the emerging specialty of palliative care, which is revolutionizing how chronically ill patients are treated, and focusing scrutiny on whether doctors and hospitals should be paid differently.
American health care has been driven by a culture of "more is better." More tests. More treatments. More technology. This has created a medical system that succeeds brilliantly at paying doctors and hospitals to do myriad procedures to cure illness and prolong life at any cost.
But it often fails to improve the quality of life and ease pain for the sickest and most expensive patients of all.