Hope Crolley's stepdad teased that her heart was so big, she loved the Vikings even when they were losing. Crolley knew the stats of every player and details of all the games.
"The first thing you noticed about Hope was her disability. The second thing you noticed was she had a huge heart," said Bob Filipczak, her stepfather of 22 years. "Mentally, she was maybe 6 or 7. But emotionally, she was more sophisticated and had an intuition that was really sharp."
Crolley died on Feb. 3 after falling in her Hopkins apartment and hitting her head. She never regained consciousness. She was 29 years old.
One year while she was growing up in Orono, counselors arranged for Crolley and some friends to meet with the Vikings. Afterward, all the talk was about the players.
"She explained to my sisters that 'Cris and I are good friends.' Well, it ended up being Cris Carter she was talking about," Filipczak said. "My sisters are both crazy, bleed-purple Vikings fans. And they couldn't believe it. She really knew them."
Her father, Tim Crolley, remembers eighth-grade orientation. Teenage cliques repeatedly huddled closer as Hope approached. Unfazed, she moved from group to group until her sunny hello was finally welcomed. "A lot of people would have let it get them down. She would not," her father said. "She was just not going to be around people and not have them be her friend. She had a jovial soul."
By the time she graduated from Orono High School, she had won the heart of the school and become assistant manager of the soccer team.
"Anybody she saw who was not OK, she'd go over, try to take care of them. Give them a hug. Try to be there for them. That's who she was," he said.