Sometimes, out of loss, motivation can sprout anew. Sometimes tragedy spurs hope.
Spencer Reeves watched the Gophers football team, often from the bench, lose for most of the 2011 season. And then, tragically, he saw teammate Gary Tinsley die suddenly from a heart problem in the offseason.
From those events, Reeves decided to live by a simple creed: Control what you can; leave what you can't.
Lesson one: Life is fleeting; make the most out of it.
"It's definitely a reality check," Reeves said of the death of Tinsley, a linebacker like Reeves. "My whole mindset has changed. ... I know how hard Gary wanted me to fight, so that's also motivation for me."
That altered mindset has put Reeves, a senior, in position to see extensive action at outside linebacker after he made only eight tackles in 10 games last season. Reeves never really made a push to start, and he warmed the bench plenty last season, dropping off in production from his sophomore year. But this is a new year and a last chance.
"I wasn't happy with our season last year, and I know no one was, but if I come out and get better, in the film room, in the weight room, we'll get better as a team," Reeves said. "And that's what I try to focus on every time I come out."
Coaches say that mature viewpoint often comes with age, and they've seen it, in Reeves' case, translate into a more ripened and precise player on the field as well. Reeves, they say, is better able to read the opponent's offense and react quickly and efficiently to many situations.