When her grandmother developed dementia and could no longer recognize her, Sara Grochowski was heartsick. The grandma she had seen almost every day during childhood, who had brought her chicken soup when she was ill, no longer knew her.
But when Grochowski brought her children, then-5-year-old Lukas and baby Anna, to visit her grandmother, something happened.
"It was in those visits that I was able to see the person my grandma truly was again and the woman I was so close to all of my life," Grochowski said. "My grandma could be with both Lukas and Anna and not worry about knowing their names or who they were supposed to be in relation to her, and she could just be silly and playful with them."
As Grochowski found, a child's relationship to great-grandparents can be profoundly meaningful for those families that experience it.
And given increased life expectancies, four-generation families have become more common. A 2006 study categorized nearly a third of survey respondents as being part of a four-generation lineage.
Demographic factors
Life expectancy in the United States has risen by about 30 years since 1900, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
This has been a big factor in the rising number of four-generation families over the past century, Minnesota state demographer Susan Brower said.
However, while the population may be living longer — especially in Minnesota, which tends to have higher life expectancies relative to the nation as a whole — women today are having fewer babies and having them later in life, which counteracts the former factor. Then there is the issue of mobility as families spread out across the country, which interferes with that generational contact.