Anyone who's ever thrown a party knows that its success is dependent on more than simply the food and drink. When to have the party, where to have it and whom to invite are all key decisions. And while any one of them can sidetrack a perfectly planned event, one surefire party buzzkill is a stressed-out host.
Any get-together is going to entail a certain amount of hard work on the part of the party-giver, but as is true in most things, timing is everything. Some tasks are inevitably last-minute. It's hard to dust on Sunday and still have a spotless coffee table on Saturday, at least at my house.
Many things can be done ahead, though. Centerpieces can be arranged, linens can be ironed (if necessary) and much of the food can be made well ahead of the big day. The more items you can knock off your to-do list, the less stressed you'll be on the day of the party.
Since I'm a food writer, I'll focus on what I know best, food, and that starts with menu planning.
When you're planning a menu for any event, whether it's an elaborate dinner party or small get-together with drinks and a few bites, it's important to keep color, texture and flavor in mind.
The adage that people eat with their eyes is true, so plan accordingly. Create a menu that has a variety of colors. Something as simple as a platter of roasted red, yellow and green peppers can bring a buffet to life.
Texture is also key. The crunch of a crudité platter is wonderful, but not if the only other options on the table are chips, crackers and mixed nuts. That's why those veggies and crackers are always sitting next to a bowl full of dip or a silky, soft cheese.
Flavor is another critical element. Imagine a meal made entirely of incendiary or acidic dishes. No one wants their mouth in a perpetual pucker for the entire evening. While one or two zippy dishes would be welcome, for them to shine as they should, they need to be sitting next to dishes with more neutral flavors.