Constance "Connie" Abrego Jackson was a giver and a fighter.
The St. Paul resident was known in her neighborhood for opening her door to anyone in need.
Her daughter Nadine Jackson said her mother was warm and loving and found joy in bringing people together. Whenever friends or family came into town, they made a beeline to her house. Sometimes it was for her cooking. Most times it was for the comforts of her home.
"She was happy knowing that she could be of help to others," Nadine said. "It just made her feel good that she knows she was able to do that. That put a smile on her face."
Jackson, who worked as a nurse and was a longtime advocate for low-income housing, died March 31, surrounded by family members. She was 80.
Born in Albert Lea, Minn., she moved to St. Paul and became a nurse at a hospital, eventually going into private nursing after an injury.
Nadine has fond memories of growing up with her siblings and mother. There were the days when her mom would take them fishing. There were the nights she would pile her children into the station wagon to go to drive-in movies, then distribute blankets and popcorn as the kids sat on top of the car. There were big dinners where friends and family members would clamor for her mother's enchiladas, chow mein, fried rice or other meals she came up with or circled in red marker in her many cookbooks.
There was also the way her mother would have her door open for people in need of a place to stay for a few days or would buy extra groceries in case a neighbor or someone else needed food. With her grandchildren growing up fast, Jackson would bag their used clothes and take them to a shelter or church.