Fate only accorded attorney DeGalynn Wade Sanders one more Mother's Day.
Her attorney husband, Lance Sanders, was hoping for "the next Christmas" when I interviewed them — tinyurl.com/hfbleot — in February. With extraordinary optimism and bubbliness and a strict organic foods diet in the past couple years, DeGalynn had been fighting cancer that ricocheted around her petite frame. She also coped with MS and blindness. She could fight it no more Saturday for her husband and their two young sons, Landen, 9, and Logan, 6.
"I'm like really, me? You're trying to get me through one more Christmas? Really? I'm thinking a hundred more Christmases," said DeGalynn, who only lost her effervescence during our interview when Lance talked about how grateful he was for the financial and emotional support of the community, friends and family as she sought additional treatments. "Let's have her around for her sons. That's what we're in it for," said Lance.
"[She's been] warm and bubbly and such a strong spirit throughout this whole thing. Every day you wake up and thank God for each little blessing."
Her father, attorney Larry Leventhal, said, "She was bedridden for most of Mother's Day. The kids were with her. As you know, she was very close to her children and really watched over them and taught them in very early years how to do things.
"She had been struggling for recent years with cancer — initially breast cancer. She was in remission but it came back and migrated to her liver and spine. She had been treated at the Mayo Clinic and the University and was in Mexico. She was there for a month; came back about three weeks ago. It seemed to be helping. But on this past Thursday night she was in a great deal of pain, went into the emergency room and on Friday at Southdale they found it on the liver. The cancer had advanced considerably. With family and friends around, she died Saturday at 8:30 a.m."
Services for DeGalynn are scheduled for Friday at 10 a.m. at Living Word Christian Center in Brooklyn Park.
Rest well, DeGalynn.