MayKao Fredericks won't forget the looks in the two teenagers' eyes when she told them she and her husband could afford to adopt their six young siblings — but not them.
"It was like letting them go off a cliff," she recalls.
While the younger children generally have been safe and happy, the two older siblings ran into trouble with drugs, gangs and abusive relationships. "We knew, for the two we left behind, life would be hard and unfair," Fredericks said through tears. "But we made our decision."
Fredericks' story reflects an ongoing problem for Minnesota's foster care system — its struggle to find permanent adoptive homes for foster children who are older or have siblings or disabilities. And it's why Gov. Mark Dayton has proposed $2.5 million over the next two years to overhaul payments to adoptive families.
Minnesota pays foster parents some of the nation's highest rates — $659 to $2,291 per month, depending on children's needs and disabilities. But it pays adoptive parents some of the nation's lowest rates — $247 to $837 per month. That imbalance is a disincentive for foster parents to consider adopting and giving the troubled children stable lives, said Lucinda Jesson, commissioner of the Minnesota Department of Human Services.
"We just can't allow that to continue," Jesson said Tuesday. "Every child deserves a permanent home."
In a plan announced Tuesday, the Dayton administration would equalize payments for foster care, relative care and adoption. The annual cost to the state would reach $8 million by fiscal year 2017, but the plan would increase the state's allotment of federal child welfare funds.
Minnesota has 355 foster children awaiting permanent homes because their parents' rights have been terminated. While the state has had success at rapidly returning foster children to their birthparents, when that has been deemed safe, it has fallen short of federal goals in finding homes for kids who can't go back.