When it comes to donating their own things, it's common for kids, especially younger ones, to put up a fuss. Children often grow attached to their possessions, so it's natural for them to not want to part with them. But even preschoolers are old enough to learn about generosity, compassion and the importance of helping others. Donating their old toys is a great way to begin that lesson.
When talking about donating, keep your child's age and maturity in mind. Try something simple and straightforward, like: "Some people don't have as much money as we do to buy things like toys. I know you used to like that doll, but you haven't played with her in a really long time and you have lots of other dolls. Just think how happy this doll could make another little girl who doesn't have one."
After introducing the idea, ask your kids to help with choosing which things to donate as a family. Here are some tips to get them involved:
• Ask for input. Ask where they'd like to see their playthings donated and why. Let kids decide which toys stay and which ones go. When they won't part with a favored item, try to respect their wishes but encourage them to look for other options to give.
• Set a target. Make it fun by turning it into a game. For example, for every two toys they keep, see if they can give up one.
• Reward them for their efforts. Offer plenty of acknowledgements, praise and hugs when they agree to pass along some of their items.
If you're giving away toys, furniture or baby items, make sure they have all their parts, aren't broken and haven't been recalled (for recall information, just type in the product name on the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission's website, www.cpsc.gov). Be sure that electronic toys work (some organizations won't take toys without working batteries). If you're donating clothes, toss out the ones with stains, tears or holes.
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