It begins even before I clear customs in St. Kitts, a sense that Nevis is an island apart from others in the Caribbean.
A guy with a guitar slung on his back starts chatting with people beside me in the queue, and before long, I'm in a three-way conversation, learning where to hear live music, which restaurants are closed on Mondays, and where to find trails leading to newly discovered waterfalls. (Hike up from the prison.)
In Nevis, everyone knows everyone, or so it seems, and they're happy to share news, gossip and helpful information.
Nevis (pronounced "NEE-vis"), 6 miles wide by 8 miles long, is the smaller of two sister islands, former British colonies that make up the Federation of St. Kitts and Nevis. Located in the leeward portion of the Caribbean's Lesser Antilles, both islands have lush foliage, dormant volcanoes and uncrowded beaches, though Nevis, population 12,000, is quieter and less developed than its big sis.
Revealing Nevis as my destination to other travelers is like sharing a secret handshake in a club where those who love beach casinos, bars with DJs and night life turn one way as they exit the airport, remaining in St. Kitts, while the rest of us hop into cabs to the ferry. Crossing the 2-mile channel to Nevis, we arrive at a destination with one sleepy harbor town and more than 50 churches, where wild sheep and donkeys roam freely, an island reported to have more vervet monkeys than people.
"Nevis offers a distinctive sense of disconnect, which I think is so difficult to find in today's global world," said Nancy Beckham, a former Nevis resident whom I met in Miami. "No buildings are higher than a coconut palm, there aren't many vehicles, the people are educated and kind, the surroundings are lush and green, and there's plenty to explore, including wonderful historical ruins that have disappeared from other Caribbean islands."
For a recent visit — my second in five years — I lured my pal Libby down from Portland, Maine, with promises of swimming, touring, cocktail imbibing, eating and lounging in the sun. Call it Lollygagging 101.
Arriving at our hotel, Montpelier Plantation & Beach, Libby and I were greeted by Ziggy, a friendly, honey-colored hound dog. Javier Stanley, a bartender with an oval face and a thousand-watt smile, served us a welcoming rum punch in a tall chilled glass.