DULUTH - Brian Sykora was 13 and about to enter the eighth grade. He was hanging out at a friend's house when his uncle Tom pulled up in the front.
"He was driving my mom's car, which didn't make much sense," Brian said. "My uncle told me that I had to go home. I started to argue a little and he said, 'No. You have to go home right now.'
"The way he sounded when he said that, I knew something very bad had happened."
Bad as it could get for this family of five. His father, Jim, 42, a Northwest Airlines employee, was driving to work and suffered a fatal stroke.
"He was a great guy, a strong guy," Brian said. "He got my brother and me started in athletics. He had a love for sports and passed that along."
Older brother David was an outstanding football player at Bloomington Jefferson. He was in the Gophers' 1998 recruiting class as a defensive lineman. He redshirted that fall, lettered in 1999, and then left the program.
Brian's best sport at Jefferson was basketball. He played as a freshman in the winter of 1998-99, then was a three-year starter and star for the Jaguars.
This was a time when the Lake Conference featured Spencer Tollackson at Chaska, Kyle Marxhausen at Rosemount and Jordan Nuness at Eden Prairie. And when Sykora was a senior, Jefferson lost to Kris Humphries, Dan Coleman and the rest of the West Metro All-Stars at Hopkins in the state title game.