Not so long ago, Minneapolis Washburn's Nyle Dickel and Minneapolis Southwest's Nick Flaskamp were rivals and not much more.
They knew of each other, both linebackers from the south side of Minneapolis, Park Board football veterans who moved on to adjacent high schools in the close-knit world of city football. It would have been virtually impossible to not be aware of each other.
Their similarities don't stop there. Both Dickel and Flaskamp are intense team leaders, hardworking and gritty, the type of players coaches build teams around. They have nonstop motors, each with a penchant for making his presence known with welcome-to-my-world hits. Each also provides vital offense to his team, Dickel as a physical tight end, Flaskamp as an equally physical running back.
"They're really both very similar," said Marcus Mattox, a senior defensive back at Southwest and a friend of both players. Mattox played youth football with Dickel at Pearl Park and now is in his fourth year as Flaskamp's teammate.
"They're both aggressive, both big hitters, both outgoing people who are leaders on the field. Really, they're a lot alike," he said.
Those similarities, along with a large helping of mutual respect, sparked a friendship that blossomed over the summer. Uncertainty about the football season and living in a city of protests and unrest after the death of George Floyd led them to see each other in a different light. They started comparing notes in summer workouts and a 7-on-7 league and found so many parallels that a bond was formed.
"I used to tell myself I'm way better than that kid," Flaskamp said of Dickel. "We were rivals doing the same thing. But then we got some playing time and I saw that he was doing it as well as I was. I'd say we're friends now."
Said Dickel, "We've gotten a lot closer this year. He works his butt off. We talk all the time. And since we play the same position and a lot of the same teams, we're always sharing notes."