Inside their split: A collision of worlds

Two different narratives emerged -- one of a loving marriage and another of being trapped for years.

May 11, 2011 at 2:47PM
FILE -- In an April 25, 1986 file photo Actor Arnold Schwarzenegger poses with his bride Maria Shriver following their wedding ceremony in Hyannis, Mass. Former California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and his wife of 25 years, Maria Shriver, announced Monday May 9, 2011, that they are separating.
FILE -- In an April 25, 1986 file photo Actor Arnold Schwarzenegger poses with his bride Maria Shriver following their wedding ceremony in Hyannis, Mass. (Associated Press/The Minnesota Star Tribune)

The partnership of Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwarzenegger was a collision of two worlds, an unlikely but watchable match. Twenty five years ago, when they married, Shriver was a child of American Democratic political royalty -- pedigreed, pampered and with professional ambition. Schwarzenegger was a fading strongman and minor movie actor with immigrant dreams.

Schwarzenegger, 63, would go on to world domination -- as a top international box office star -- and then the California governor's office. Shriver, 55, who became a top talent in NBC's news division, dialed back her career to care for their four children, then relinquished her job altogether when her husband became governor in 2003.

While many friends said they were surprised by Monday's announcement that they had separated, two distinctly different narratives were emerging Tuesday about the breakup. Some close to Schwarzenegger spoke of a loving marriage that slowly broke apart over time. Friends of Shriver, who has been living at a Beverly Hills hotel for several weeks, portrayed her as trapped for years in an unhappy relationship that reached a breaking point after the deaths of her parents -- her mother, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, in 2009 and her father, Sargent Shriver, in January -- and a difficult transition back to private life.

"There was such a void," said a friend, "and when she looked around, she realized her husband could never even think of filling it." When asked why Shriver stayed in the marriage for so long if she was so unhappy, the friend responded: "Part of it is family legacy, part of it is Catholicism. But the most important thing was their four kids."

Their kids -- Katherine, 21, Christina, 19, Patrick, 17, and Christopher, 13 -- also was a top priority for Schwarzenegger, a former aide said. The aide said that although the pair had a complicated relationship, they were affectionate and showed "a genuine, deep love."

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