How TV shows like 'Mo' and 'Muslim Matchmaker' allow Arab and Muslim Americans to tell their stories

COLUMBUS, Ohio — Whether it's stand-up comedy specials or a dramedy series, when Muslim American Mo Amer sets out to create, he writes what he knows.

The comedian, writer and actor of Palestinian descent has received critical acclaim for it, too. The second season of Amer's ''Mo'' documents Mo Najjar and his family's tumultuous journey reaching asylum in the United States as Palestinian refugees.

Amer's show is part of an ongoing wave of television from Arab American and Muslim American creators who are telling nuanced, complicated stories about identity without falling into stereotypes that Western media has historically portrayed.

''Whenever you want to make a grounded show that feels very real and authentic to the story and their cultural background, you write to that,'' Amer told The Associated Press. ''And once you do that, it just feels very natural, and when you accomplish that, other people can see themselves very easily.''

At the start of its second season, viewers find Najjar running a falafel taco stand in Mexico after he was locked in a van transporting stolen olive trees across the U.S.-Mexico border. Najjar was trying to retrieve the olive trees and return them to the farm where he, his mother and brother are attempting to build an olive oil business.

Both seasons of ''Mo'' were smash hits on Netflix. The first season was awarded a Peabody. His third comedy special on Netflix, ''Mo Amer: Wild World,'' premiered in October.

Narratively, the second season ends before the Hamas attack in Israel on Oct. 7, 2023, but the series itself doesn't shy away from addressing Israeli-Palestinian relations, the ongoing conflict in Gaza or what it's like for asylum seekers detained in U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement detention centers.

The animated series, ''#1 Happy Family USA,'' created by Ramy Youssef, who worked with Amer to create ''Mo,'' and Pam Brady, follows an Egyptian American Muslim family navigating life in New Jersey after the 9/11 terrorists attack in New York.

Current events have an influence

The key to understanding the ways in which Arab or Muslim Americans have been represented on screen is to be aware of the ''historical, political, cultural and social contexts'' in which the content was created, said Sahar Mohamed Khamis, a University of Maryland professor who studies Arab and Muslim representation in media.

After the 9/11 attacks, Arabs and Muslims became the villains in many American films and TV shows. The ethnic background of Arabs and the religion of Islam were portrayed as synonymous, too, Khamis said. The villain, Khamis said, is often a man with brown skin with an Arab-sounding name.

A show like ''Muslim Matchmaker'' flips this narrative on its head, Elhady said, by showing the ethnic diversity of Muslim Americans.

Before 9/11, people living in the Middle East were often portrayed to Western audiences as exotic beings, living in tents in the desert and riding camels. Women often had little to no agency in these media depictions and were ''confined to the harem'' — a secluded location for women in a traditional Muslim home.

This idea, Khamis said, harkens back to the term ''orientalism,'' which Palestinian American academic, political activist and literary critic Edward Said coined in his 1978 book of the same name.

Khamis said, pointing to countries like Britain and France, the portrayal in media of people from the region was "created and manufactured, not by the people themselves, but through the gaze of an outsider. The outsiders in this case, he said, were the colonial/imperialist powers that were actually controlling these lands for long periods of time.''

Among those who study the ways Arabs have been depicted on Western television, a common critique is that the characters are ''bombers, billionaires or belly dancers,'' she said.

The limits of representation

Alesafar argues there is still a need for diverse stories told about people living in the Middle East and the English-speaking diaspora, written and produced by people from those backgrounds.

''In the popular imagination and popular culture, we're still siloed in really harmful ways,'' she said. ''Yes, we're having these wins and these are incredible, but that decision-making and centers of power still are relegating us to these tropes and these stereotypes.''

Deana Nassar, an Egyptian American who is head of creative talent at film production company Alamiya Filmed Entertainment, said it's important for her children to see themselves reflected on screen ''for their own self image.'' Nassar said she would like to see a diverse group of people in decision-making roles in Hollywood. Without that, it's ''a clear indication that representation is just not going to get us all the way there,'' she said.

Representation can impact audiences' opinions on public policy, too, according to a recent study by the Institute for Social Policy and Understanding. Results showed that the participants who witnessed positive representation of Muslims were less likely to support anti-democratic and anti-Muslim policies compared to those who viewed negative representations.

For Amer, limitations to representation come from the decision-makers who greenlight projects, not from creators. He said the success of shows like his and others are a ''start,'' but he wants to see more industry recognition for his work and the work of others like him.

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