When his wife was diagnosed with Alzheimer's at age 57, Tom Allen decided to quit his job as executive director of a small nonprofit in 2010 to become her primary caregiver.
For Allen, 61, it was the beginning of a sometimes daunting journey that included finding part-time work as a janitor and spiritual adviser, joining a caregivers' support group, navigating the health care system, selling the house and moving to a senior citizen apartment building.
The move ensured that his wife, Julie Allen, is tended to when Tom can't be there, thanks partly to helpful neighbors.
Tom Allen is the embodiment of family members who become caregivers for the 100,000-and-growing population of Minnesotans with Alzheimer's and related dementia.
Julie was a full-time mom and self-employed nurse for years and never accumulated much retirement savings. Tom makes under $25,000 a year from part-time jobs. Their modest financial situation made it possible for Julie to qualify for some publicly funded medical and adult day programs a couple of days a week.
"Life gets simpler and simpler," Tom said. "Julie can't accommodate much activity. I'm home when I'm not working and I manage all that gets done. We watch a lot of TV together. As she loses more capacity I have to take on more. I have to manage the schedule and resources. I feel blessed because Minnesota has a great safety net, but it takes time to navigate.''
A common story
His story will become more common as baby boomers age. Nationally, one in nine people age 65 and older has at least the beginnings of the disease.
ACT on Alzheimer's, a volunteer-driven statewide organization formed several years ago, is not only studying the problem but also exploring economical and innovative initiatives to help caregivers, affected families and taxpayers.