While the Gophers were going through a morning shootaround before their late November ACC/Big Ten Challenge matchup at Boston College, Dupree McBrayer was taking a five-hour train ride from his home in Queens, N.Y., to get to the game.
McBrayer would arrive in time to play, but his mind was elsewhere that night during Minnesota's first loss of the season.
Richard Pitino told reporters after the game how much coaches, teammates and friends were trying to be strong for McBrayer, who went scoreless for only the second time in three years. Nobody outside of the program knew just how much the senior guard and co-captain was going through.
"It was very sad, because I came from New York City to see my mom," McBrayer said Tuesday. "I wasn't able to think straight."
McBrayer's mother, Tayra McFarlane, didn't have much longer to live. She died from cancer less than a week later.
McBrayer remains thankful for that last visit with her. "Thanks to Coach P," McBrayer said. "He let me go one last time."
In eight of the nine games after Boston College, McBrayer scored in double figures — the one exception being an emotional victory vs. Nebraska two days after his mother died. As much as he's gone through in the past month, McBrayer has still been the most consistent all-around player for the Gophers (13-3, 3-2 Big Ten), who will lean on his leadership again Wednesday at Illinois (4-12, 0-5).
"He's quietly playing great ever since his mother's funeral," Pitino said. "What he went through there was obviously very tough. Since then, he's playing at a higher level and with a greater purpose than we all probably know."