The last time Sara Langworthy lived with her mother was during high school.
"I left home at 18; I was very independent," she said.
But life happens, and its plot twists recently brought the two women back together under one roof. Langworthy got divorced, and her father died, leaving her mother, Alice Langworthy, to cope with their hobby farm near Rochester, Minn.
"She was all alone on the farm," said Sara, the middle of three sisters and one of two living in the Twin Cities. Together they decided that Alice would move in with Sara and her teenage son.
That decision had a profound impact on both women's lives. They're very different people: "I'm extroverted; she's introverted," Sara said. But they share several traits that make them compatible housemates. Both are artists, although Sara's medium is fiber and her mother's is ceramics. Both are gardeners, but where Sara focuses on flowers, Alice grows vegetables. And both like to spend time in the kitchen. "We cook and eat a lot," Sara said with a laugh. "We have very similar styles."
The decision to combine households also had a profound impact on Sara's century-old house in St. Paul's Payne-Phalen neighborhood. The first challenge was to create a bedroom and bathroom for Alice. Sara called in architect Michael Roehr of RoehrSchmitt. "I've known him for years," she said. She liked the way he had remodeled his own home, and wanted her place to have a similar feel. The two also shared a rapport that Sara knew would result in a successful project. "He knows me and has a strong sense of what we wanted," she said.
What they wanted, in addition to a first-floor suite for Alice, was a bigger, better kitchen with a family room and a view of the outdoors.
"I wanted visual access to the yard," Sara said. "Where [Alice] lived before, she had a sunroom where she could watch bees and birds, and drink coffee. She had to give up a lot [to move to the Twin Cities]."