Adele Mailer, 90, an artist and actress who made headlines in 1960 when her husband, the novelist Norman Mailer, stabbed and seriously wounded her at a drunken party in their apartment, died on Sunday in Manhattan.
Adele Morales was an aspiring painter in 1951 when she met Mailer, the author of "The Naked and the Dead," who was on his way to becoming recognized as one of the pre-eminent postwar American novelists. The two began living together and married three years later. It was Norman Mailer's second marriage.
The relationship, marked by heavy drinking and ancillary love affairs on both sides, was stormy.
"I decided I was going to be that beautiful temptress who ate men alive, flossed her teeth and spit out the bones, wearing an endless supply of costumes by Frederick's of Hollywood," she wrote in her memoir "The Last Party: Scenes From My Life with Norman Mailer," published in 1997. Her notion of romantic life, she wrote, was the opera "Carmen": "You lived from crisis to crisis, sang love duets and had screaming fights."
On the verge of announcing his improbable candidacy for mayor of New York, Norman Mailer decided to celebrate with a party at their apartment on the Upper West Side on Nov. 19, 1960.
He instructed his friend George Plimpton to summon the city's power elite, handing him a list that included the police and fire commissioners, the banker David Rockefeller and the Aga Khan. None came, but the party could still be described as glittering, with attendees that included the poets Allen Ginsberg and Delmore Schwartz, the editor Norman Podhoretz and the actor Tony Franciosa.
With the liquor flowing, it all made for a volatile mix. In her memoir, Adele Mailer recalled having taunted her husband, bluntly deriding his manhood, referring to "your ugly whore of a mistress" and following with an obscenity. Some guests recalled that the point of no return came when she told her husband that he was not as good as Dostoevski.
Norman Mailer stabbed her in the stomach and back with a penknife, puncturing her cardiac sac.