Lori Peck blames no one. She owns that her nephew, Christopher Toltzman Thompson, 27, made "a lot of mistakes" on March 1, the day he drove into a Mall of America parking ramp and jumped to his death from the seventh floor.
She understands that the day was fraught with confusion, which likely explains inaccuracies in initial news reports of a "hit-and-run," which it wasn't, and of alcohol use, which she said is also untrue.
Peck wants people to know that the young man who died was not the young man she and her family knew and loved.
"People may think he was a really troubled kid who may have wanted to hurt someone on his way out," said Peck, 42, a welder and mother of two who lives in Oak Grove, Minn.
Although he was driving erratically, "we don't want him painted as a kid on a rampage," said Peck, fighting back tears. "I want to set the record straight for our family."
A clearer picture of the day is revealed in police reports Peck received three weeks after his death. Those reports include a transcript of a 911 call and witness statements. While they were painful to read, Peck has found strange comfort in knowing that her nephew seemed to be trying to do the right thing.
Peck lived with Thompson and his parents from his birth until he was 5. "When Chris was born, he was definitely the little brother I always wanted," said Peck, whose two siblings are years older. She took care of him at night so that his mother could work in the morning. "He was always smiling. Just funny. He loved animals."
His parents' divorce when he was 15 hit him hard, Peck said, but he grew very close to his mother, Terri Toltzman; the two got tattoos together after his 18th birthday. He developed an "amazing group of friends," and found an emotional outlet through music, playing guitar and composing. "Music was his life," Peck said.