WEBSITES Free, chaplain-led program for couples, emphasizing weekend retreats. Open to all Guard personnel and other married members of the Minnesota military. One Minnesota soldier's experiences in Iraq. Offers six free counseling sessions to couples. Network of websites with forums, support and information. Army Reserve site on reentry and reintegration for couples. News and resources for military families. Youth-focused site working to expand health care for veterans returning from Iraq and Afghanistan.


"After the War Zone" (Da Capo Press, $15, Laurie B. Slone and Matthew J. Friedman): Guidance for families and veterans dealing with reentry.