WASHINGTON — It's considered bad form for politicians to say things that are not true.
When they talk about their own ambitions, though, deception pretty much comes with the territory and no one seems to mind.
People who are patently feeling out their presidential prospects claim not to be even thinking about that, when you know they've got to be humming "Hail to the Chief" in the shower.
They say they don't pay attention to polls — ha!
They suggest their families will drive their decision whether to run, setting up a dramatic tension that is more fiction than fact.
As the 2016 presidential campaign field begins to take shape, here are five things to know not to believe when you hear them:
Over Christmas 2010, Mitt Romney's big family gathered 'round and cast ballots on whether he should run again for the Republican nomination. The vote was 10-2 against, with Romney himself voting no.
The voters had spoken. But Romney ran.
The lesson: On this question, family matters, not so much.
In the lead-up to 2016, Sen. Rand Paul, R-Ky., has made much of his wife, Kelley, being a hard sell.
"There's two votes in my family," he said when asked in December about running. "My wife has both of them, and both of them are 'no' votes right now. ... I'll tell you in a year whether I'm able to persuade my wife."
Reserved but politically savvy, Kelley Paul has stood in for him at campaign events and worked for a Republican consulting firm.
Among other Republicans, Rep. Paul Ryan of Wisconsin says he'll have the big talk with his wife, Janna, in 2015. Louisiana Gov. Bobby Jindal and his wife, Supriya, are praying and talking about it now, the governor says.
Jeb Bush already heard his mother, Barbara, tell everyone "we've had enough Bushes" in the White House. But the former Florida governor said he's in his 60s and doesn't have to do everything his mom says. "I'm trying to avoid the family conversation," he said.
Running for president is a heavyweight (and intoxicating) decision that gives some families pause. But pinning the matter on the spouse and kids is generally part of a broader effort to put off answers and decisions until it's time to commit one way or the other.