Readers Write (May 3): Civility, same-sex marriage

  • Updated: May 2, 2013 - 9:17 PM

Illustration: Mailbox.

Photo: ., Tribune Media Services

CameraStar Tribune photo galleries

Cameraview larger


There’s no excuse for not showing respect

I so disagree with the low expectation of civil behavior expressed in the May 2 Letter of the Day (“The governor and the angry crowd: It’s part of the job, sir”). The writer seems to express the opinion that shouting down a speaker with whom one disagrees, as audience members at a recent forum did to Gov. Mark Dayton, should be tolerated as a mature adult response. How ridiculous.

Whether the example is shown by a U.S. representative shouting “You lie” at President Obama during a speech, or a high school student’s angry outburst at a teacher, there is a growing disregard for civil behavior in our society.

These uncontrolled emotional outbursts are indeed “juvenile” in nature because the lack of respect that they show immediately escalates the discourse to an emotional confrontation that destroys our ability to reconcile differences with one another.

As for the “implied understanding that goes with the job,” my view, whether the figure is a governor, teacher, police officer or neighbor, is that I should show respect even when I disagree.

Gary Clements, St. Paul

• • •

We should not be surprised by the governor’s response to the vocal audience (“Dayton says forum crowd in Shakopee was ‘juvenile,’ ” May 1). After all, he has handlers and advisers who daily tell him the pulse of the state. They all want to keep their jobs, so I am sure they tell him what he wants to hear. Plus, the governor lives in a much different world than the average taxpayer does.

Everyone has their hands out to him, asking for consideration of their special causes. By the nature of politics, he knows that in order to be re-elected, the electorate needs to look favorably on his policies and history of achievements.

What better way to do that than to give funding to every organization that has a minority, disenfranchised person, handicapped or union affiliation. After all, it is not his money.

Evidently, the audience members in Shakopee are not on the receiving end of the state coffers; rather, they are the ones who fill it. I’m sure one of the governor’s minions got a stern talking-to over that speaking engagement.

David Dodson, Apple Valley

• • •

Not only did Dayton accurately describe the behavior exhibited by some at the event, he spelled out the mature alternative: “Raise your hand and get a mike.” This would have allowed the dissidents to explain their position clearly and calmly to everyone in the room.

Diane Barnett, Edina

• • •

The taxpayer cry about having a smaller piece of the pie is also a canard. Tax rates are the lowest they’ve been in 70 years, a fact that never seems to register. If everyone’s slice of the pie would just have remained the same size as it was 10 years ago (remember all those Ventura and Pawlenty rebates and tax cuts), we wouldn’t be having the budget issues we’re having today.

  • get related content delivered to your inbox

  • manage my email subscriptions


  • about opinion

  • The Opinion section is produced by the Editorial Department to foster discussion about key issues. The Editorial Board represents the institutional voice of the Star Tribune and operates independently of the newsroom.

  • Submit a letter or commentary
Connect with twitterConnect with facebookConnect with Google+Connect with PinterestConnect with PinterestConnect with RssfeedConnect with email newsletters