Family gathers to reflect two days after 27-year-old’s body is found.
Danielle Jelinek, 27, of Oakdale, has been missing since Sunday when she was last seen in the Chisago Lakes area. Chisago County sheriff Rick Duncan conducted a press conference south of Chisago Lakes in the area of an ongoing search for Jelinek. Jelinek family members and friends attended the press conference, including Danielle Jelinek's parents Ed Jelinek and Janice Jelinek, left. (MARLIN LEVISON/STARTRIBUNE(email@example.com (cq - ORG XMIT: MIN1212121602160333
For her family, steeped in faith and strongly connected, the discovery of Danielle Jelinek’s body in a Chisago Lake swamp eased one heartache, but opened another.
Their grim search came to a close Friday, five months after she had disappeared and on the 38th wedding anniversary of her parents, Jan and Ed, who gathered with family friends at their Cottage Grove home on Saturday.
“She’s now home — that’s all we were praying for,” said Jan Jelinek, her voice choking at times in tears. “I feel she gave me the best gift. I always said I just wanted her to be with me. I didn’t want to have to wonder any more if she was out there, cold and all by herself.
“We all wanted this day in one sense, but we also knew it would be a very hard day.”
“It confirms our worst nightmare. But it’s also a relief to know that now she can be laid to rest peacefully and respectfully,” added Cory Jelinek, Danielle Jelinek’s sister. “To think of her lying out there in that swamp for the past six months — it just breaks my heart.”
The Chisago County medical examiner completed an autopsy Saturday, but did not release an official cause of death.
Search takes its toll
The long and relentless effort to find Danielle Jelinek faced an almost immediate obstacle: More than a foot of snow began falling on the night the 27-year-old Cottage Grove resident spent at the home of Aaron Schnagl, who immediately became a “person of interest” in the case, and remains so today. But it also led investigators to believe her body wouldn’t be found far from the split-level house surrounded by nearly a dozen others in a spacious rural subdivision.
“It’s in the vicinity where we expected to find Danielle because of the night that she went missing,” said Chisago County Sheriff Rick Duncan, who grew close to the Jelineks through the search that began Dec. 9.
For the Jelineks, emotions ebbed and flowed through sleepless nights and preoccupied days as weeks flowed into months. Rising hopes faded to despair, frustration and anger. The one constant has been the ache of sadness and longing, tears that have come easily, unexpectedly. The not knowing was exhausting, Cory Jelinek said.
“I feel like the response to that has been different for each of us,” Cory Jelinek said of the waiting. “Like my dad, even up until yesterday I still had a little hope that she was still out there somewhere.”
But really, she already knew how it would end, that it was already over. “When I found out she had been with Aaron, I knew, I just knew,” she said. “My grieving process really began right then. And that really doesn’t make it any easier.”
Family reflection time
A dreary Christmas came and went. Danielle Jelinek’s 28th birthday was marked without her. And on a weekend celebrating mothers, her family continued to mourn and remember.
Jan Jelinek recalled the little girl, her baby, for whom she felt particularly protective because of the frightening perils of chronic asthma. The birthday parties missed and the teasing endured gave a young Danielle an empathy for others who felt the sting of being different.
“I think that built her character,” she said. “She carried that through her whole life.”
As if in defiance of her illness, Danielle Jelinek grew to be a fiercely competitive endurance runner, participating in races like the “Tough Mudder,” a 12-mile course that includes obstacles designed by the British Special Forces.
Jan remembered her daughter’s excitement over the townhouse she was in the process of buying, and the success she was enjoying as a manager at the Wells Fargo branch in Maplewood, where customers drawn to her vivacious charisma would bring her cookies.